Porn & sex addiction recovery for high performers

You've mastered everything except this.

You can close the deal, run the team, push through pain that would stop most people. And you still lose an hour tonight to porn, tell yourself it's the last time, and mean it less than you did last week. I coach entrepreneurs, executives and other high performers through porn and sex addiction recovery — with the same rigor you'd bring to any other high-stakes problem.

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Floris Pinter

Recovery Coach for High Performers

01 The Problem

Porn addiction was never a willpower problem.

You've hit goals other people quit on. So when porn doesn't respond to sheer effort, the story you tell yourself is that something's wrong with you.

It isn't. Willpower works on tasks with a clear finish line — a project, a workout, a negotiation. It doesn't work on a compulsive sexual behavior loop wired into your brain's reward system, especially one you've never actually mapped out: your specific triggers, your specific patterns, what's happening in the 30 seconds before you reach for your phone.

I'm Floris — I coach high performers through porn and sex addiction recovery specifically. Not with a checklist of sites to block, but with a structured process that treats it the way you'd treat any other high-stakes problem: diagnose the mechanism, build the system, execute daily, adjust with the data.

This is probably for you if —

I don't work with everyone, and this isn't for everyone. It tends to work best for people who recognize themselves here.

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You've built real success — but porn or compulsive sexual behavior is the one area still running you, instead of the other way around.

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You've tried quitting porn on willpower, a blocking app, or an accountability partner — and it hasn't held.

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You want this handled privately, not processed in a group of strangers.

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You think in systems and results, and generic self-help content doesn't move the needle for you.

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You're not looking for a quick fix — you want your porn or sex addiction actually resolved, not managed.

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You're ready to be direct with yourself about what's actually driving the behavior.

02 The Method

Four things have to change — usually at once.

Most attempts fail because they focus on one of these and ignore the rest. The coaching addresses all four in parallel, tailored to how you specifically operate.

Mastery

Self-Mastery

Learn to handle urges, emotion and impulse without relying on willpower in the moment. You build the awareness to respond on purpose instead of on autopilot.

Identity

Identity & Meaning

Shift from "trying to quit" to becoming someone this no longer fits. We work on purpose and self-respect so this feels like growth, not an ongoing fight.

Structure

Structure & Direction

Build the daily structure and standards that keep you grounded. When the rest of your life has clear direction, this loses its grip on the empty space.

Biology

Biological Rewiring

Repair the reward system driving the compulsion — dopamine baseline, sleep, physical health — so your biology is finally working with you, not against you.

03 Why Coaching

Why coaching?

Doing It Alone

✕ Generic advice that never touches your actual triggers
✕ White-knuckling urges with no real strategy behind it
✕ Running on motivation, which fades on the hard days
✕ Most alone exactly when you're most likely to slip
✕ The same relapse loop, without ever finding the root cause
✕ Progress that stalls and leaves you feeling broken

        1:1 Coaching
        ✓ A roadmap built around your history and your triggers
✓ A real understanding of the biology and psychology at play
✓ Tools that work in the moment an urge actually hits
✓ 7-day chat support so you're never handling it solo
✓ Weekly sessions to refine the plan and keep momentum
✓ Real, lasting change — typically within 90 days

      

04 Ways to Work Together

Pick the level of support you need.

Skool Community

Self-paced porn addiction recovery program

→ Self-paced porn and sex addiction recovery program
→ 2.5 hours of core video training
→ Structured worksheets and exercises
→ Tools to rewire your brain and subconscious patterns
→ Community of others doing the same work
→ Monthly 1:1 coaching and check-in sessions

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Most Effective

1-on-1 Coaching

12 weeks, fully personalized

→ 12 weeks of private 1:1 coaching
→ Everything in the Skool community, included
→ Lifetime access to all materials
→ Weekly coaching calls, built around you
→ A personalized plan with ongoing feedback
→ Daily accountability across all 12 weeks

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05 Questions

Q&A

How long does porn addiction recovery actually take?

The coaching program runs 90 days. Recovery is individual, but most clients notice fewer urges and more control within the first few weeks, with real, lasting change typically landing within the full 90 days.

How do I know this will actually work for me?

You're not handed a generic program. Through 1:1 calls, a strategy built around your specific history and triggers, and daily chat support, the coaching adapts to what you actually need — not a script.

Is this confidential?

Completely. All coaching, communication and personal information stay strictly between us. No group disclosure, no public forums, unless you choose otherwise.

What if I relapse during the program?

Relapse gets treated as information, not failure. We use it to find what actually went wrong, adjust the plan, and strengthen your strategy — so you keep moving instead of starting over from zero.

What does coaching cost?

Pricing is discussed on the free discovery call, once we've both assessed whether this is actually the right fit before moving forward.

Is there a money-back guarantee?

No. Real change requires real effort and consistency on your end. If you engage fully with the process and let yourself be held accountable, the results follow.